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When it says "Be afraid of love" -- it means, "I'm too distant right now to connect with anyone, so keep your expectations low."

When it says "Huge heart!" -- it means, "I don't have much to give other than acceptance. And I may be too busy with my friends to make room for you unless you sweep me off my feet."

When it has a gender identification ("Butch", "Femme") -- it means there are expectations that you'll have an identification too... and you're willing to be stereotyped by it.

When it says "Aren't there any smart, stable, fun women out there?" -- It means, "I can't find them where I've been hanging out, but don't want to change."